What is culture shock and how to overcome it?

What is Culture shock?

“Culture shock” is a normal process of adapting to a new culture.  It is a time when a person becomes aware of the differences and/or conflicts in values and customs between their home culture and the new culture they are in. International students embark on a great adventure.  They travel to other countries hoping to expand both their academic knowledge and their knowledge of the world.  Adventures can be scary, however, and they can be fraught with the unexpected.  Some international students might become overwhelmed with adjusting to even seemingly mild cultural differences, while others may hide their discomfort and attempt to blend in, leading to continued confusion.  All international students will feel culture shock at some point and to varying degrees.

Before you leave to study abroad, make sure you’re familiar with the typical symptoms of culture shock so you can recognize and combat it early on. These symptoms generally include:

Typical Symptoms of Culture Shock

  • Being homesick
  • Feeling helpless
  • Feeling isolated
  • Disorientation
  • Lack of concentration
  • Irritability
  • Sadness
  • Sleep or eating disturbances.
  • Paranoia

Tips to overcome with culture shock

Culture shock can be easily dealt with if you remain calm and accept the changes gradually. Here are some effective ways to help you out:  

  • Know that adjusting takes time

Culture shock and being homesick is normal. All students experience a period of adjustment during the first weeks and months of school. Be patient with yourself and understand that it is a process. You will be excited and intrigued about cultural differences, but there will also be times where you are frustrated or confused. Set goals for yourself, like having one new local thing per week to share with loved ones back home or starting a new hobby that is not possible back home.

  •  Focus on the positive

You might find it easy to focus on what is missing, like familiar foods and customs from back home. However, comparisons will not help you settle in when encountering culture shock abroad. Instead, focus on the good things around you. Remember that discovering and learning new things is why you wanted to study abroad. Write down fun or interesting discoveries and add to your list throughout the year. You could write your list in a notebook, a blog or journal (in English to help you practice) or even type a quick note on your phone.

  • Understand your academic expectations

Not only are you adjusting to a new country, but you are also learning how to handle a different academic system. This takes time. Understanding expectations will reduce your anxiety about schoolwork. Chat with your professors, advisor and friends about what is expected at your university. This will soothe your nerves and help you approach your classes appropriately.

  • Accept that you will be homesick

All students, both international and domestic, go through a period of homesickness. Although it is important to stay connected with loved ones, remember to embrace your new home and the opportunities to make new friends, too. Push yourself to start conversations with people. Celebrate your home by talking about your culture and take the time to learn about their cultures, too.

  • Do not compare yourself to others

Try not to compare yourself to others when learning how to deal with culture shock. Every student is different and adjusts at their own speed, even if their home is closer to your university. While you do not want to overwhelm yourself, do things that make you a little nervous, like sampling an unfamiliar food or practicing your conversational English with a native speaker. You only grow when you reach outside your comfort zone.

  • Get to know a variety of students

Bonding with other international students can be easy since they share your perspective but befriend domestic students, too. They can help you adjust to their culture, answer your questions and have fun while you are abroad. Many domestic students are outgoing, but they might be hesitant to talk with an international student because they are nervous, just like you. Take the first step and start conversations with new people.

  • Find ways to relieve stress

Adjusting to culture shock at university can be stressful. Exercising can help you burn off nervous energy while exploring your new home. Yoga or meditation could help you relax. Exploring new hobbies or joining a student club on campus, especially those that encourage socializing and meeting new people, can help you overcome culture shock.

  • Attend cultural events

You’ll be surprised by the number of cultural and social events organised in and around your campus. Be sure to participate in them regularly. If you get a chance, volunteer! It is a great learning experience and might even offer a great networking platform.

  • Keep an open mind

Look at things from other perspectives. If a fellow student or professor acts differently than you would expect, consider how their background and culture influence their behaviour. Just as you would want your domestic classmates to embrace and understand your differences, do the same for them.